I used to think I knew who I am. I mean I have a name and personality. I have a unique name, so I don’t think people will get confused if I tell them who I am. It is not until I started to self reflect, I realized I did not know me at all. I did not know even though I was happy with life. I had a lot of attachment issues. I did not know that I was brainwashed by RomCom and thinking no work is required in relationships. I did not know that for four generations my family had divorces and I did not know how marriages work.
If I did not know who I am, how would I be able to have a loving relationship?
Get to know yourself!
Shih-Ying