Category: Relationship
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I am still so angry at my dad
It has been a challenging week at home. I had to deal with a few things and my dad has not been the most helpful person. He was not exactly helpful, but he tries his best to be. And I could not help to be angry at him. Then I realized that these things are…
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Parenting- we all have bad days and good days. So do the kids.
Well, there are times that children have to cry and there are times that they have to misbehave. And I learned from my children is that you just have to be flexible sometimes, it is ok, if things change, and it is totally ok, if I need to give them time to process their feelings…
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I am special
How many times have we told our children that they are so special? What is the message that we are telling them when we say that? Are we saying that because they are so special, they should feel entitled about life? I do believe that we are all different and unique in ways as individuals,…
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Blame you- so I don’t have to look at myself
In life, it is so easy to blame the other person. When that crazy driver cut me off, I am so yelling at him. How dare him! What was he thinking? I own the road and don’t you dare cutting me off. He was such a idiot by the way he drives. Have you looked…
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People pleaser – whom can I please? be myself- take care of yourself
Growing up, being the eldest child, I am used to taking care of my younger brother. I moved to Austria with my father and my brother, then I was automatically told to take care of my father and brother. Then I became a people pleaser. I thought being a people pleaser, my parents would love…
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The journey to know myself
I used to think I knew who I am. I mean I have a name and personality. I have a unique name, so I don’t think people will get confused if I tell them who I am. It is not until I started to self reflect, I realized I did not know me at all.…