Tag: relationship
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Parenting- we all have bad days and good days. So do the kids.
Well, there are times that children have to cry and there are times that they have to misbehave. And I learned from my children is that you just have to be flexible sometimes, it is ok, if things change, and it is totally ok, if I need to give them time to process their feelings…
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Perfectionist & baking- Mom had a meltdown baking cookies
I clearly remember my sons words “Mom, they are just cookies”. When he said that, it woke me up. On a day in June, the baker in me decided to make some sugar cookies with my son. My son decided to cut the cookies in Bunny forms. I did not say much, but really the…
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I am special
How many times have we told our children that they are so special? What is the message that we are telling them when we say that? Are we saying that because they are so special, they should feel entitled about life? I do believe that we are all different and unique in ways as individuals,…
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People pleaser – whom can I please? be myself- take care of yourself
Growing up, being the eldest child, I am used to taking care of my younger brother. I moved to Austria with my father and my brother, then I was automatically told to take care of my father and brother. Then I became a people pleaser. I thought being a people pleaser, my parents would love…