Tag: self-help

  • Compassionate to yourself

    Compassionate to yourself

    It has been a busy few weeks dealing with getting back to our routine and trying to make things work. And trying to stay focused on my spiritual work. There was moments that was a bit much, because I was just tired trying to make everything work in life. At moments in life when things…

  • It’s a great day 

    It’s a great day 

    I did one of Tara Brach’s guided meditation, and at the end of the meditation she closed with it’s a perfect day. And it got me thinking. It has been sort of a blah day in life. It’s a regular workday, where I did what I was suppose to do. I had to deal with…

  • Could have and should have, am I not perfect? 

    Could have and should have, am I not perfect? 

    Being a perfectionist, I could not help to reflect on my life and think if I could have or should have, would I be in a difference place in life today. Would I be more successful in my career, if I did not listen to my parents? Would I have an easier life, if I…

  • Failure is impossible – Susan B Anthony

    Failure is impossible – Susan B Anthony

    Susan B Anthony once said “Failure is impossible” and I had a really challenge life on this earth. I totally agree. There was lot of moments where I think I failed, like a divorce or getting a promotion. At that moment, I felt miserable of failing life. Looking back, I was able to grow as…

  • Who cares about dating- I am OK

    Who cares about dating- I am OK

    On Monday I went to Salsa class, and I felt a sense of freedom when I was dancing. I enjoyed it so much that all the worries went away, I was full of joy and peace. I realized that that is how I want to feel and be in life, just be ok with who…

  • FREE Thinker 

    FREE Thinker 

    “Be a free thinker and don’t accept everything you hear as truth. Be critical and evaluate what you believe in.” — Aristotle Media has been so toxic. It has a way of keeping us glued to ask what is coming next? What kind of drama will entertain us next. It has a way about not…

  • Manifestation of a website and what is the vibration?

    Manifestation of a website and what is the vibration?

    I promised a friend to help her with her website, and she told me that multiple people worked on it. It is sometimes hard to grasp what Abraham means that if your vibration matches what you are manifesting then it will happen. This is a bit of an example that vibration is all that mattered.…

  • Our success is measured by money, but how about by happiness?

    Our success is measured by money, but how about by happiness?

    In this society, we measure success by money and the things we own. Step by and think about it, is that what we are here to accomplish? Is working long hours getting what we want? It is almost like a trap with money, you can never think you have enough. Then you thrive for more…

  • Am I really good enough for this good life? 

    Am I really good enough for this good life? 

    Growing up I was told that I was not good enough a few times that it became part of my belief system. For the last year, I worked really hard on removing this false belief and time and time again, it came up in life situations. Things are going well in life and I am…

  • I need space – even as an extrovert  

    I need space – even as an extrovert  

    That’s how people differentiate extrovert and introvert, how they recharge. I am not sure if I agree with that generalization. As an extrovert, I love people and being around people. And I am certainly excited to be with people. However, I noticed that if I take time to recharge, I am a better person. Dealing…