Blog about life

This blog is about my life lessons- being a mom, being a friend, and just being.

  • I am still so angry at my dad

    I am still so angry at my dad

    It has been a challenging week at home. I had to deal with a few things and my dad has not been the most helpful person. He was not exactly helpful, but he tries his best to be. And I could not help to be angry at him. Then I realized that these things are…

  • Compassionate to yourself

    Compassionate to yourself

    It has been a busy few weeks dealing with getting back to our routine and trying to make things work. And trying to stay focused on my spiritual work. There was moments that was a bit much, because I was just tired trying to make everything work in life. At moments in life when things…

  • It’s a great day 

    It’s a great day 

    I did one of Tara Brach’s guided meditation, and at the end of the meditation she closed with it’s a perfect day. And it got me thinking. It has been sort of a blah day in life. It’s a regular workday, where I did what I was suppose to do. I had to deal with…

  • Could have and should have, am I not perfect? 

    Could have and should have, am I not perfect? 

    Being a perfectionist, I could not help to reflect on my life and think if I could have or should have, would I be in a difference place in life today. Would I be more successful in my career, if I did not listen to my parents? Would I have an easier life, if I…

  • Instant gratification from cookies

    Instant gratification from cookies

    The marshmallow test Walter Mischel  My children surprise me in many ways. My son went to an overnight summer camp for the first time without me this summer. So one of the dad was going there mid week, so I asked the dad to bring him a care package with home made chocolate chip cookies.…

  • Failure is impossible – Susan B Anthony

    Failure is impossible – Susan B Anthony

    Susan B Anthony once said “Failure is impossible” and I had a really challenge life on this earth. I totally agree. There was lot of moments where I think I failed, like a divorce or getting a promotion. At that moment, I felt miserable of failing life. Looking back, I was able to grow as…

  • Who cares about dating- I am OK

    Who cares about dating- I am OK

    On Monday I went to Salsa class, and I felt a sense of freedom when I was dancing. I enjoyed it so much that all the worries went away, I was full of joy and peace. I realized that that is how I want to feel and be in life, just be ok with who…

  • FREE Thinker 

    FREE Thinker 

    “Be a free thinker and don’t accept everything you hear as truth. Be critical and evaluate what you believe in.” — Aristotle Media has been so toxic. It has a way of keeping us glued to ask what is coming next? What kind of drama will entertain us next. It has a way about not…

  • Surviving life- forgiving myself

    Surviving life- forgiving myself

    I had to do many things that I am not proud of in order to survive life. And yes, I did have a tough one. It was a challenging one being in a foreign country by myself and make it all work. It was a challenging one not having much support from my parents growing up.…

  • Manifestation of a website and what is the vibration?

    Manifestation of a website and what is the vibration?

    I promised a friend to help her with her website, and she told me that multiple people worked on it. It is sometimes hard to grasp what Abraham means that if your vibration matches what you are manifesting then it will happen. This is a bit of an example that vibration is all that mattered.…